Title: Three major reasons why people stop being friends
I. Introduction
A. Hook
— Today, I went for a walk in the park. After a while, I sat on the stone desk for a rest. I saw the children and the young people playing in pairs. And then, looking around my side, just me. I asked myself, who were my friends? Where were they gone? I was lost in thought. Maybe in our childhood, we were ignorant with no possibility, no babies, even the benefit.
B. Connecting information
— Do you notice that the distance of people is getting farther and farther, so is the same as heart distance? One day, we suddenly find the friends around us are getting less and less. In the meantime, we realize that people begin to stop being friends.
C. Thesis statement
—Firstly, experiences between friends; Secondly, common topic and goals; Thirdly, family is the first space in our heart.
II. Body Paragraph 1 (Reason 1): experiences
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III. Body Paragraph 2 (Reason 2): common topic and goals
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IV. Body Paragraph 3 (Reason 3): family cares
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V. Conclusion: In my opinion, just three major reasons can’t statement that all people stop being friends. Ultimately, everyone has different lives, everything depends on ourselves.
Today, I went for a walk in the park. After a while, I sat on the stone desk for a rest. I saw the children and the young people playing in pairs. And then, looking around my side, just me. I asked myself, who were my friends? Where were they gone? I was lost in thought. Maybe in our childhood, we were ignorant with no possibility, no babies, even the benefit.
Do you notice that the distance of people is getting farther and farther, so is the same as heart distance? One day, we suddenly find the friends around us are getting less and less. In the meantime, we realize that people begin to stop being friends.
Firstly, some bad experiences between friends will stop being friends. As our age increases, we experience a lot of things between friends, like indifference, betrayal, broken promises and so on. Just like me, I had a good friend for seven years. One day, he borrowed 20,000 dollars from me to buy a Mini-Cooper, and he said he would return the money to me two months later. Then, two months had gone, and he had gone. He cut off the contact ways where I connected him. In fact, money was not the major reason I cared. I cared about him, who was my best friend. I couldn’t believe that he lost his words. The best friend hurt me, and I would be making friends carefully in the coming days, even stopping being friends.
Secondly, we can’t find the people who have a common topic and goals with us. Sometimes, we have one interesting thing to do with somebody, but we will find a guy who haven’t a common topic and goals with you. Maybe he or she, not on your way, they can’t get what you said or wanted. To do it with somebody will be a waste of time, no good as we active by ourselves. Finally, we will find that we prefer to do it by ourselves without friends. So, I think the common topic and goals is the major reason to stop being friends.
Thirdly, family is the first space in our heart, we have no time to make friends. I married in Oct, 2007, and I have no child so far. Around me, a lot of my classmates had married and had babies who spent more time and energy on their family. It’s true, not only them, but also me who will spend more time caring about the members of family, so it’s the reason why people stop being friends.
In my opinion, just three major reasons can’t statement that all people stop being friends. Ultimately, everyone has different lives, everything depends on ourselves.
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